why loneliness becomes faith sonetimes
Despite of being nice to others, loving others, and every single moments of joys ,one can give others. i have done everything with believe me.while talking nicely, didn't show them attitude,live with grace ,honor,being polite..everything has been finished from my side that I have performed all skills of goodness.This was said to my closer friend to me and while she was sharing it with me ..i have the same feelings inside
but why it happens that they left..
Sometimes it may be a new career, a place they have always wanted to live, something they want to do, but to do it alone and not have to commit to a time frame or to be with a person. This really is about them and not you, so let them go, so they can be fulfilled.
very formal thoughts..but maybe simply they don,t deserve our goodness or it has all gone outdated and overdosed, which people like us gave to them ..they couldn't digest all goodness.
Now what,s the reason behind…
1. Because it is not always about us.
Sometimes it is about them when they walk out, and what they need to get from life and for their personal happiness and well-being. We are not the center of the universe for anyone’s life except our own!
We all want different things in our lives no matter how compatible we may be, or how well we get on. When someone recognizes a strong need or desire that grows or doesn’t fade, and they feel they cannot fulfill that passion or desire they have, while being with you, then they must ultimately leave or live resenting you.
Is that what you really want for yourself or for them? Do you now see why you need to let go of people who chose to leave your life?
Sometimes it may be a new career, a place they have always wanted to live, something they want to do, but to do it alone and not have to commit to a time frame or to be with a person. This really is about them and not you, so let them go, so they can be fulfilled. Go find something that will fire you up and inspire you in the same way.
2. Because some relationships are toxic.
Can I put it any more simply than that? It will either be detrimental for one person (you) even if you were prepared to hang in there, and keep hoping that things would change, or was it detrimental for the other person and they realized that and left?
Or was your relationship detrimental for both parties? Where any part of a relationship is toxic, it is not a good place to be for either person. Being with a manipulative, controlling, jealous, or abusive partner are an example of a toxic relationship.
Don’t expect them to change and stop making excuses for them. It doesn’t change a thing. Let them go.
On the other hand, if you were accused of being the toxic component of your relationship, then again just let them go, and use that time wisely to reflect on why you may need help, to resolve any issues you are going through.
3. Because some people will do what they want whenever they want.
They won’t cast you a second thought. Call them whatever names you want but I doubt they will care. Yes, some people will never change. They may have promised to change or may have had no interest in changing. After all, they think they are perfect, so why suffer with someone who will never see you as someone of any significance?
Their ego and degree of self-importance blinded them to your pain and suffering. Have you waited up for them to come home, did they ignore you or belittle you, did they forget your birthday, to take you out? Were your relationship very one-sided and all about them and they decided to leave you for someone else without casting a thought your way? If so, let go, and breathe a sigh of relief, you had a lucky escape. Count your blessings. It is no loss!
4. Because maybe you have driven them away.
Have you changed? Has something happened? Did you miss the signals or alarm bells going off? Were they trying to tell you something? Did they act differently? Only you can answer this, or if you find it too difficult, confide in someone whose opinion you respect, but may not always like! You deserve an honest answer before you can make peace and get some closure.
5. Because sometimes you just have to recognize that it was only you trying to make things work.
Maybe they found what they were looking for elsewhere and you no longer met their expectations. You were surplus to their requirements, they lost interest. I know this can be devastating and hard to face, but is that possibly what happened? Sometimes we try so hard to meet all the expectations of another, but it is unsustainable and exhausting.
You tried to look perfect, smart, and cool, try to really fit into the other person's life, interests and hobbies but there is no guarantee that they would stay. Maybe they are so fickle, they will continue to float between people, not quite sure what they really need or what they are looking for. Do you really want to be with someone like this?
So be inspired with like that ladies and gentlemen worldwide and follow their spirits of the living and get better for the betterment of futuristic approach.
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