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Do not interfere in other's life when you aren't asked for help

huma shah
6 min readMay 3, 2023

Please don’t interrupt and destroy others life🙏

in my mind best pic relates the peopke who ibtereferes in ithers affairs(goodle image)

people used to destroy others' life even knowing that they do not have keep values by doing this, especially in Pakistan and South Asian countries. Too much interference destroy not only a life but it also destroys mental health of the person and their dreams too.

why does it happen?

Those people who interfere in the lives of others are usually those who have very little else to do on their platter. They thrive on gossip-mongering, keeping their eyes and ears open to catch any small piece of information that they can use to pass judgment. These persons have very low self-esteem and lack confidence and self-discipline. However, in order to stay relevant, they create an aura of knowledge and importance. Such people have a lot of followers as it also gives the others something to do! The tragedy is that when someone interferes, the other does not stop him/her. Instead, a feeling of ‘what will people think’ dawns giving the gossip food for

Why are some people so rude?

anxiety(google image

There can be many root causes for rudeness, such as insecurity or fear. People are often rude after being on the receiving end of rudeness. Researchers have found that “just like the common cold, common negative behaviors can spread easily and have significant consequences.” In other words… Rude is contagious!

Don’t Let Others Come Between You and Your Partner

sad feelings,fights

what they get after doing this all ..this is a serious case n becoming a trend to spoil other's life

Do write to inhale your anxiety,

depression, anger,

Turn your deeper anger into order ..everything starts with discipline and even ends up with discipline.

let all build a productive world to erase negativity around us, insecurities lie in the heart and minds of people to break relationships.

everyone should keep boundaries to know their self-awareness and others should respect their boundaries whether it,s about closest family members. siblings, parents, everyone has their boundaries .so be generous to people. live and let live others.

No matter how well things are going as a couple, the bubble that typically surrounds you doesn’t last forever. At some point, you have to begin engaging with each other’s families.

family should create a positive role to settle down things

In my work as a family therapist, there’s one process that can appear time and time again, and that interferes with closeness within a relationship. Couples and family therapists have a number of words to describe this process, but I think here we can call it something like “people getting in between” you and your partner.

For our purposes — although this might even be a good friend or flirty colleague — we are going to concentrate on the times that it is a family member who comes between you and your partner. In particular, it often comes down to the “in-law issue”.

An important thing to emphasize in this process is that it isn’t always interference from the outside that matters. Sometimes this interference is invited in order to manage the closeness of the relationship. If we think about it this way, we see that a couple might unconsciously hijack a family member to help them keep their relationship stable.

Think about this for a moment: there you are in an intense relationship, and somewhere in your head you begin to wonder if it’s too intense, maybe you want to do something without that other person for a while.

So what happens? You say an old friend has come to town and wants to meet up. There: you have someone getting in between your relationship!

Three’s a crowd

When we start to talk about this, lots of people in our culture will immediately think about the phrase “two’s company but three’s a crowd”. One example is that of mothers-in-law, and sister in law their choices make one's life more miserable and to the moon for their illiterate son, or brother, so it has become a common culture of being abused, disrespected, and proud for no reason, too much disturbance in ones life even personal life .in our sexist culture, often gets the blame for problems between a couple these are the characters should think about the same applies on them .

stop outsiders interference

The other example we often think about is affairs between one of the partners and an outsider.

so stop outsider interference if someone is really interested to be in a relationship, rather than abusing and making each other life hell ..try to communicate and solve the matter on your own if you are a really normal human and a gentleman.

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huma shah
huma shah

Written by huma shah

peacelover,blogger,and good human,optimistic thoughts less hate ,more love this world needs. Be generous to everyone you meet is fighting a battle inside..

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